I love this quote by Octavia E. Butler.
“First forget inspiration. Habit is more dependable. Habit will sustain you whether you’re inspired or not. Habit will help you finish and polish your stories. Inspiration won’t. Habit is persistence in practice.”
It shows what role habits play in our life. There are days on which we don’t feel like taking action. But if we are successful in forming healthy habits, they can keep us going, even when we are unmotivated.
Think about it. We are creatures of habits. What do we do as soon as we get up?
Many people now reach for their phone. Or we would be going to the bathroom.
How does that instinct come to us?
Because our brain recognizes it as something we do every time a cue/trigger happens.
Knowing how habits are formed is important to form new habits and change old ones.
What are habits?
Habits are automatic behaviors that have been wired into our brains through repetition and as days pass, we do it less consciously.
Neuroscientists have found that there is a part of our brain called basal ganglia which is crucial for habit forming. Once a neural pathway for a habit is established in our brain, it never goes away. This is good for us since the thinking part of brain can concentrate on other important activities.
But the downside is that our brain doesn’t recognize good habits from bad.
How are habits formed?
In his book, The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg explains about the cycle that happens when we actually perform a habit.
Cue is a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and which habit to use.
It is what you do once you get the cue. It can be physical or mental or emotional.
Reward helps your brain figure out if this particular loop is worth remembering for the future.
For example, take the habit of checking smartphones.
You are working, in your office or kitchen. Or you are talking to someone. Your phone buzzes (cue). You reach for your phone automatically even though you know it’s a junk mail or yet another useless forward message (routine). You read it (reward). You get rewarded by the momentary distraction (craving).
How many times has that happened to you?
If your brain likes the reward, it will crave for it again when the cue appears again.
Take the case of craving for junk food.
You are driving on a highway and you are hungry. You see a McDonald’s (cue). You pull of your car and orders a burger. You eat it (routine). You get rewarded. You ate a burger even though you knew there are healthier options available in other places.
Our cravings initiate habit loop.
This behavior is run by our cravings. Our brain remembers the outcome of each habit. It remembers the feedback. If it is positive, it acts automatically when the cue comes again. Thus, the loop gets formed and the neural pathway for the habit gets wired onto our brain.
In the above case, you have eaten a McDonald’s burger before and you know the taste. Your brain remembers it and crave for it again when the cue comes again.
Cues can be anything; it can be visual (when we see something), people (when we’re with certain people we get the urge to do certain things like smoking or drinking), our thoughts etc.
The good news is that you can change any habit if you identify what you crave for.
Understanding the habit loop and replacing the routine with something better of your choice, which gives the same reward, is the key to changing habits.